Where will you choose to look?

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2020 is almost over. What an interesting year, to say the least.

In looking back on 2020, it's easy to start listing all the negative things that have happened. It's true that in some way, every single one of us has experienced some form of isolation and sadness and loss this year. So, I know how easy it is to go down the rabbit hole of thinking of all the bad things that I or my loved ones have experienced in 2020. I did it. It got pretty bleak. 

So, I decided to start a list of all the blessings that have come this year. To flip the negative into positive. Don't get me wrong, there is beauty in the broken and a lot can be learned in the darkness. I'm always saying to myself "Don't miss the lesson" when I find myself in tough spots.

BUT! The blessings. The richest blessings have also come this year!
My list is too long to share, but here are a few I wrote down:

  • I’ve gotten more comfortable with being uncomfortable.

  • I’ve become more innovative in finding new and creative ways to keep my business going.

  • I’ve been able to really foster and nurture relationships, particularly with my husband and children.

  • I’ve experienced the kindness of strangers.

  • I’ve become more patient -- navigating the world of virtual school, anyone?

  • I’ve indulged in eating comfort food.

  • I’ve slowed down -- spending more time on my back porch watching the seasons change.

  • I’ve saved money on gas.

  • I’ve had weekly zoom calls with extended family.

  • I’ve worked hard and actually had the best year so far in my business!

  • I’ve exercised almost every day this year.

  • I’ve witnessed the strength of others in dealing with hardships.

  • I’ve been still. Still enough to notice and take in all that is around me.


So yes, bad things have happened this year. I could chose to look at each and every one and spiral downward into a pit of despair. Or I can choose to look at the blessings. Positive mindset. A heart of gratitude that is open and expectant for 2021.

I hope and pray you look at the positive. Expect good things. For where you look, you go. What you feed, will grow.

Stephen Moseley