Let it Go

Let go of that which no longer serves you. I love that saying. I admit it’s sometimes hard to do though. 

It’s okay to let things go. I am saying this to you and to myself.

There is a painting that my grandparents had hanging in their house pretty much all my life. It’s lovely, but totally not my style. I somehow ended up with it after they both passed away. I’ve held onto it for almost a decade. But it isn’t in a bright spot on the wall for all to see and admire. It’s covered by a sheet in my dark attic.

I came across it the other day as I was looking for something else. I decided that it’s time I let someone else enjoy this painting. It’s not doing anyone any good hiding away.

Why do we hold on to things? There are many reasons – In my case, it’s not because I love the painting. It’s because it reminds me of my grandparents – it’s an attachment to the past. But, when I look at it, I don’t feel good. I feel guilty for not displaying it proudly, but having it hidden away.

Marie Kondo so eloquently says: "Can you truthfully say that you treasure something buried so deeply in a closet or drawer that you have forgotten its existence? If things had feelings, they would certainly not be happy. Free them from the prison to which you have relegated them. Help them leave that deserted isle to which you have exiled them."

Well, I confess that this painting has been in exile too long. I know my grandparents would much rather someone else enjoy it than for it to be forgotten in my attic. It’s time to say goodbye. And that is okay. 

I will try and sell this painting so that someone can have it proudly hang in their home and enjoy it. It doesn’t somehow negate my love for my grandparents. Nor will it diminish my memories of them. So, I will gratefully acknowledge the fond memories of being at my grandparents’ house and seeing this painting on their living room wall. And, I will let it go. 

Marie Kondo also says, "by acknowledging their contribution and letting them go with gratitude, you will be able to truly put the things you own, and your life, in order." I agree. 

Thanksgiving is only a few short weeks away. As we enter into this season of gratitude, now is the perfect time to say thank you for the things that have served you well.…Are there items that you no longer use or like? Would someone else benefit from having them? It's okay to let them go.

Do you want help in letting things go? I am ready to help you with that process. Let’s let stuff go together.